There's a big difference between being spoiled and spoiled rotten. Theres nothing wrong with buying your children things but can you make sure that they actually deserve it? I'm just saying.
Tuesday, January 31, 2012
Monday, January 30, 2012
Its a new day!
Make up your mind to stop having regrets. What's done is done and you can't take it back. Just embrace your do over with a good attitude to do better. Bury shoulda woulda coulda and say your good byes. Its a new day baby! Set your eyes on the prize! Blessings, Peace & Prosperity!
Sunday, January 29, 2012
The Devil made me do it!
People blame the devil for everything. That is crutch people use to not take responsibility for their own actions. Is the devil busy? You bet! But just like God gives you free will are you trying to tell me that the devil put a gun to your head and made you do it? The devil is a lie! And you are too if that's what you are telling me. Because what you are saying is that the devil has more power and control over your life then God. Quit saying the devil made you do it. You made a concious decision to do it. Quit giving the devil so much credit. Because one day you just might have to answer for that. I'm just saying. Think about it.
Don't cry about today. Get excited about what's coming!
So many times we allow life to get the best of us. Life happens and will continue to happen. Trials& tribulations come our way. And in the process we can get knocked down. Sometimes you can't do anything but cry. But today put a period behind your pity party. There is an expiration date toyour agony. Seasons change. And if this season you are in has been long lasting know that its almost over. Your attitude during a difficult season can make it seem longer. Make a decision today that you will no longer allow your NOW to determine your NEXT! So stop crying about today. Get excited about whats to come! Blessings, Peace& Prosperity!
Saturday, January 28, 2012
Can a woman teach a boy to be a man?
How can a woman teach a boy how to be a man? I think the best we can do is teach a boy how to Want to be a man. What do you think? Talk to me.
Friday, January 27, 2012
Illuminati
We hear so much about the Illuminati. Does it really exist? And whose all in it? Are they really controlling everything? Or is this all made up of peoples paranoia?
Thursday, January 26, 2012
Only an insecure woman wants a man she can control
Its funny to me how some women think they "got it going on" when they are running their man. That just shows how insecure they are. A real woman wants a real man. So if you are "running things" in your relationship you are the only one who thinks thats cute. You look like the little insecure girl that you truly are. Let your man be a man. Unless of course you are afraid he might actually have since enough to want a real woman and not a mama or dictator. I'm just saying. Talk to me!
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Encourage yourself
There are so many times when we have to encourage ourselves. For whatever reason the people who should be in our cheering camp suck at their job. And it might be because they aren't qualified to hold the position to begin with. So for now on don't look for words of encouragement from outside sources. You only need one source and that one source is you! So be an encouragement to yourself today. At least you know that you are qualified for the job. Blessings, Peace & Prosperity :-D
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Are you celebrated or tolerated?
I know a lot of people. I try to have love in my heart for most. Since thats what I have been taught. But to be honest I don't necessarily "like" that many people. Do you think that you are a likeable person? I mean really? Are you celebrated or tolerated?
Monday, January 23, 2012
Treat me right!
We teach people how to treat us. First they watch to see how good you treat yourself. Are your standards high or low. How do you allow people to treat you? Do your kids talk crazy to you? Do they tell you what to do? What about your family and friends? Do you allow them to treat you any kind of way? How do you treat yourself? You can't expect someone else to treat you better than you treat yourself. Be blessed!
Sunday, January 22, 2012
Stay strong
Today people are hurting. I see it all the time on fb. People are in pain. We have got to stay strong. You have to believe in something stronger than yourself. God is the answer. You can gain strength through your relationship with Him. I'm not talking about religion. I'm talking about relationship. Get to know Him for Yourself! Once you carry the word in your heart no one can take that away. So if you are hurting like so many of us stay strong and turn to God. It doesn't mean that you will never hurt again but you will find the strength to stay strong and rest on the promises of God's word. And that my friend will never fail. Blessings, Peace& Prosperity
Saturday, January 21, 2012
Mamas boys
Why can't some women let their grown son be a man? They seem to want to control everything he does. And he's dumb enough to let her. Is there a sicker reason on why his mama wants to the only woman in his life? Does she want him for herself? Hmmm. Im just saying.Holla@me.
Friday, January 20, 2012
Dating and the single mother
Why can't single mothers just date and have fun. So many want to turn each man into their husband and mess everything up. Instead of expecting a ring just expect a to have fun. Its not that serious until you make it be.
Thursday, January 19, 2012
Mirror Images
Its amazing to me how some women complain about their daughters being promiscuous when their daughters are just being mirror images of their mothers. They see mommy bringing different men in and out of the house all the time. I guess its that old saying "do as I say and not as I do" Holla@me!
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Have black men turned their backs on black women?
I recently saw a talk show where these black men said that black women have too much mouth and attitude. So they choose not to date or marry black women. As an opinionated, loud mouth black woman I'm curious to know your thoughts. Holla@me!
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
Faking the funk
Why do people have to fake the funk? They want to act like they got it all together when their lives are in shambles. They have a need to feel "accomplished". They're riding around in a car they can't afford. They have more debt then money and want everyone to think that they're happy when they are completely miserable. Funny thing is they are only faking the funk to theirselves because everyone else already knows the truth. Blessings, Peace&Prosperity!
Monday, January 16, 2012
Who you callin a bitch?
People rewrote Websters definition of bitch a long time ago. Then the meaning changed to refer to a no nonsense type of woman. Or a weak minded man. Now it seems to have become a term of endearment from one female to another. Do you call your friends bitch? And better yet do you answer to it? Holla@me.
Saturday, January 14, 2012
Communication
Why is it so hard for people to communicate? Could it be because we lack the skills to verbally express ourselves properly or do we lack the listening skills to hear what is being said?
Church Folk
Is it just me or are church folk some of the most self righteous people you have ever met? Its always God this God that but they are the quickest to condem a "sinner". So many times its the saved and sanctified that can tell you what you need to be doing. My question is what are "they" doing. Isn't passing judgement a sin? I'm aware that I'm making a judgement right now. But they seem to be oblivious to what comes out of their mouth. What is the agenda? I thought the point was to love God and to have a relationship with God. Not religious doctrine. Church folk are turning people away instead of drawing them near.
When these church leaders fall from grace the church is the first to turn their backs. Wouldn't the God in them say lets embrace our brother or sister. If he or she needs help/therapy then they should be more than willing to go through the fire with them. Because some people are dealing with spirits/issues that the church should be equipped to handle. But the church is so quick to say be gone. Go away. Where is God in that? Church folk need a reality check. And better yet, they need to start cleaning out their own closet. Because sadly enough alot of those same leaders who have fallen from grace were the same ones condeming and pointing the finger at someone esle. Meanwhile no one is getting healed and people are so wrapped up in their glory that they forget about God's glory. I'm just sayin. Blessings, Peace and Prosperity
Thursday, January 12, 2012
Expections
Sometimes do you feel as though you put expectations on people? Is this something that happens subconsciously or do we realize that this is something that’s just is. What are some expectations that people have put on you? I know I am guilty of doing that myself. We set ourselves up for disappointed when we put unnecessary expectations on people. Because nine times out of ten they don’t have a clue. That’s not fair to them or us. Holla@me! Blessings, Peace and Prosperity
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
Cheating. Is there a double standard?
Everybody wants to get all up in arms when a man cheats. But when one of our girls cheat we become their alibis. So I ask you do women have a double standard when it comes to cheating? Holla@me!
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
Friends. How many of us have them?
What happened to real friendship? My Daddy use to always say "if you keep one eye on your friends youe enemies will leave you alone" The older I get the more relevant his words become. Friends are supposed to support your vision. But what happens when they don't. Then what? How do you keep going along like nothing has happened? I've been thinking about this for days. Then today I heard a pastor say "you dont need anybody to support you" Wow! That's exactly what I needed to hear. So I guess its OK to get support from other sources. This pastor also said "some of yal need to fire your friends." Was he talking to me again? I think he's on to something. We design our own lives and if your friends need firing then fire their asses and design a life where you are truly loved, appreciated and supported. Blessings, Peace & Prosperity!
Monday, January 9, 2012
Shake It Off
This morning I let the actions of another get to me and I became unfocused. Its all good though because I reigned my emotions back in and it was a lesson learned. Shake it off! Stay focused no matter what. Make sure your inner circle has a positive flow. Life can be hard enough without dealing with negative people. And if you by any chance have an emotional bf just deal with your emotions, deeply and completely forgive yourself then turn it into a positive. Focus on something better. Whatever the situation there is a positive solution. Today I challenge myself to not get offened. Blessings, Peace & Prosperity.:-D
Always worried about the next man!
How many times do we find ourselves worried about someonelse's mess? I mean really! I know I am done! I just can't afford to anymore. I'm done wasting my energy on people who are really non factors in my life. I take that back.They will now become non factors because these people are not putting any positive deposits into my life bank. And if I continue to let them continue to keep taking out withdrawal after withdrawal, then my savings will become depleted and there won't be anything left for me or the people who love and care for me equally. A lil riled up this morning.
Sunday, January 8, 2012
New Year New Woman! Come on Ladies its time for us to get our mind right and to focus on ourselves. Whats wrong with being selfish? And who lied and said its selfish for us to take care of ourselves first? I'm not talking about neglecting family and friends I'm talking about putting ourselves first! The question is why is it so hard? Talk to me!
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